Comments on: For Men: The Groom’s Role in A Couple’s Wedding Plans http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html Just another WordPress weblog Thu, 20 Nov 2008 17:57:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: My Wedding Nigeria http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-91 My Wedding Nigeria Wed, 02 Jul 2008 16:25:29 +0000 http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-91 Hello timi You are not on your own with this one. Many many bride-to-be's feel like this when planning their wedding. Guys in general sometimes feel that its more a women's area of expertise and prefer to leave a lot of it to them to decide and arrange weddings. It can be frustrating at times, as you may feel you are doing most of the work or maybe that he isn't that interested in it all. It's hard work planning everything for a wedding, and it can be very tiring, but by the time your big day arrives it is all worth it!! Maybe you could sit down with him when you have some time on your own. Explain how you feel, maybe pick a few things that you could arrange together such as the invitations etc. Let him know that you would appreciate his time and his ideas on a few things. After all, it is his big day too. Don't push him though, the last thing you need is to have a reluctant groom helping, as it could be more of an hindrance in your planning than a help. Hope all your wedding plans are a success and your wedding day is a day for you both to remember! Hello timi

You are not on your own with this one. Many many bride-to-be’s feel like this when planning their wedding. Guys in general sometimes feel that its more a women’s area of expertise and prefer to leave a lot of it to them to decide and arrange weddings.

It can be frustrating at times, as you may feel you are doing most of the work or maybe that he isn’t that interested in it all. It’s hard work planning everything for a wedding, and it can be very tiring, but by the time your big day arrives it is all worth it!!

Maybe you could sit down with him when you have some time on your own. Explain how you feel, maybe pick a few things that you could arrange together such as the invitations etc. Let him know that you would appreciate his time and his ideas on a few things. After all, it is his big day too. Don’t push him though, the last thing you need is to have a reluctant groom helping, as it could be more of an hindrance in your planning than a help.

Hope all your wedding plans are a success and your wedding day is a day for you both to remember!

]]> By: baby http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-90 baby Mon, 30 Jun 2008 08:11:15 +0000 http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-90 Nice website!! Nice website!!

]]> By: Timi http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-86 Timi Thu, 05 Jun 2008 10:24:18 +0000 http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-86 what should one do in a situation where the groom is not sensitive to the anxiety of the bride towards the wedding preparation. He has never been involved in planning a wedding and as such does not see the need to plan well ahead of time. Sometimes he is just indifferent about the plans because he feels they can easily be sorted out later. However, he is excited about the big day. Only he is not encouraging in the planning. what should one do in a situation where the groom is not sensitive to the anxiety of the bride towards the wedding preparation. He has never been involved in planning a wedding and as such does not see the need to plan well ahead of time. Sometimes he is just indifferent about the plans because he feels they can easily be sorted out later. However, he is excited about the big day. Only he is not encouraging in the planning.

]]> By: My Wedding Nigeria http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-45 My Wedding Nigeria Thu, 07 Feb 2008 09:29:19 +0000 http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-45 Usually we think of the bride to be the most excited and keen to plan and arrange the wedding but it is not always the case. She may be feeling abit overwhelmed at the whole planning that is involved. It might be wise to have a chat with her and find out how she is feeling and her reasons behind not wanting to be involved much in it. Try and encourage her to do things together as a couple, eg. sitting down together to write the guest list, the invitations, choosing the cake and flowers together etc. Planning a wedding can be stressful for both of you but look forward to your happy day and starting your married life together. You seem to be doing an excellent job in planning the wedding so well done to you. Many women would like their fiance to share more in the planning so your bride is a lucky lady. Have a wonderful wedding! Usually we think of the bride to be the most excited and keen to plan and arrange the wedding but it is not always the case. She may be feeling abit overwhelmed at the whole planning that is involved. It might be wise to have a chat with her and find out how she is feeling and her reasons behind not wanting to be involved much in it.

Try and encourage her to do things together as a couple, eg. sitting down together to write the guest list, the invitations, choosing the cake and flowers together etc. Planning a wedding can be stressful for both of you but look forward to your happy day and starting your married life together.

You seem to be doing an excellent job in planning the wedding so well done to you. Many women would like their fiance to share more in the planning so your bride is a lucky lady. Have a wonderful wedding!

]]> By: Osaru' G. http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-44 Osaru' G. Thu, 07 Feb 2008 06:52:19 +0000 http://www.myweddingnigeria.com/2008/02/04/for-men-the-grooms-role-in-a-couples-wedding-plans.html#comment-44 How about a case of the groom doing all the planniong that the bride ought to be doing??? does that not give a sign of a gap in the future???how does one make the bride more committed to the wedding plans if one's bride is laid back???? How about a case of the groom doing all the planniong that the bride ought to be doing??? does that not give a sign of a gap in the future???how does one make the bride more committed to the wedding plans if one’s bride is laid back????

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